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Woman on Top Sex Positions
Sex Positions With The Woman On Top
So even though most people make love in the man on top position, there's a great deal to be said for employing an approach with the woman on top during lovemaking!
It's all about the reversal of roles, a reversal which can make sex something really exciting and different for both partners. We all know how men like to be in control and in charge, particularly during sex... but the fact is, it can be a huge relief to many men to give up the burden of leading and initiating and controlling how lovemaking works.
And for women it can be very exciting to use a range of methods for lovemaking where they actually have the opportunity to express their dominance and their sexuality to the full.
Women can be really thrilled and turned on by the power to tell their man that they are in charge during sex, that they are leading for once, and that now they have a chance to get sexual fulfillment and excitement from being on top.
But do woman on top sex techniques really represent such a shift from the conventional position?
When the man is on top, he's likely to get a lot of pleasure from sexual intercourse, because he can thrust deeply, he can control the pace of sex, and he can allow himself to be overcome by his deep animal instincts which at some point will make him want to thrust hard and fast and ejaculate inside his partner.
When his partner is on top, as she is in the woman on top sex position, things shift radically: this is a technique where he can give up his desire to be in control, he can be the recipient of exciting sexual sensations that will please him just as much as when he's on top, but which give him an added dimension of relaxation, passivity, receptivity.
Call it what you will, woman on top sex can be a massive relief for a man when he lies back and takes what his woman gives him!
And for women, these sex positions and the lovemaking techniques they offer represent an opportunity to move as fast or as vigorously as they like, in the position that suits them best.
And, in practice, what this means is that the techniques of clitoral stimulation and female thrusting allow the woman to take much greater pleasure during intercourse. To move in a way that gives them the greatest pleasure. This is an opportunity for women to come during sexual intercourse!
It's often said that woman on top sex is the one for great orgasms for the woman, since it allows her to control the depth and pace of thrusting.
For this to be successful, the man must have a working knowledge of his partner's body - and probably also of her sexual responses.... now, how is he going to get that? Possibly by reading Lloyd Lester's Orgasm by Command - and you can find a genuine review of Orgasm by Command here.
But there's a lot more to woman on top sex than just giving the woman an orgasm.
Women delight in giving their partners pleasure during intercourse. And while a man certainly gets pleasure in the man on top sex position, there's something radically different about having the woman on top: the way that the woman gives the man pleasure is through using active, deliberate, feminine skills of sexual pleasure.
And as every man who has had any experience of sex knows, every woman has a deep, deep knowledge about how to tease, how to pleasure, and how to sexually fulfill any man she's with, if she puts her mind to it.
But you know what? There is actually something more exciting and more intense about woman on top sex as well – when a woman is aroused, her sexuality can be immensely powerful… probably more powerful than a man's.
To have the best sex, a man needs to have complete control over when he ejaculates. So, just for a moment imagine having complete ejaculation control. Imagine being able to choose when you ejaculate during sex. Imagine being able to make love for just as long as you want.
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And yet the use of these exciting new - or at least different - techniques is something we so rarely see in the interaction of men and women during their lovemaking.
We're still bound by a convention that says men should get their pleasure, take their pleasure, really, however they like, and that somehow the woman's pleasure is almost secondary. Sex is seen as an act that is "for the man" because he has a high sex drive, and really the woman is almost obligated to give him sex when he wants it.
Sexual Positions To Please Both Partners
But woman on top sex reverses all that, it smashes through the illusions, it smashes through the conventions: it's about the woman being on top, in both the physical and figurative sense.
She can take her own pleasure, she can give her man pleasure – that's what the woman on top sex position is all about.
When a woman is dominant, on top, she can stimulate her vagina, and her G spot, in exactly the way she likes on her man's erect penis, simply by moving her body in the way that gives her the greatest and most pleasurable sensations.
What's more, because the woman doesn't have the weight of her partner resting on her she can move very freely.
In essence, woman on top sex positions don't just give the woman the opportunity for pleasure, they allow her to experience the whole gamut of her sexuality, they allow her to experience sexual sensations that she might never experience in other positions, and they allow her to reach orgasm if she so desires.
Now what about woman on top sexual positions from a practical point of view? Well you might think it's easy, but there are some points to be aware of, especially if you're a novice in this field.
To start with, if the man is lying on his back on the bed, it's easy enough for the woman to sit on him, using a kneeling position, with her vagina directly over his erect penis.
How easy she finds it to insert his penis into her vagina may depend on the angle and stiffness of his erection – if it points directly up towards his chest and is hard and stiff, particularly if his penis is small, then she may need to angle the upper part of her body forwards so that her chest is nearer his, to gain easy penetration.
If not, she can squat over him, and ride his erect penis vertically up and downwards, giving him great pleasure as she does so.
The more upright his penis is, the more a woman can maintain a vertical position when making love (I'm talking here about when the man's lying on his back). But the more stiff and horizontal his penis is, the more she will have to lean forward to allow comfortable intercourse.
In some cases however, a woman can lean all the way backwards, which flexes the man's erection considerably, and in the process puts a lot of pressure on the sensitive area of her G spot inside her vagina.
This can be deeply satisfying for her but it does need some caution to ensure that the man is comfortable and his erection is not overstretched.
Once again, as we said on the man on top sex positions page, how much pleasure you get from sex depends on the angle of penetration and the angle of the erect penis thrusting in the vagina during intercourse.
But there's only one way that you as a couple can determine what's best for you – and that's to try it all out!
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